Reclaiming play, creative expression and feminine power through authentic vulnerability

Learn to be seen

Watch “Tip #1 ~ Bust Through Your Visibility Issues with This Quick & Easy Tip!” on YouTube from my newest girl Christina Morassi from Your Ecstatic Brand

Such an easy tip to becoming a more expressive Goddess in whatever you do.

Learning to be seen can be so scary.

I know. I’ve been there and continue to live there most days.

But some days – I turn the volume up.


Some days, I stand my full 6’2″ height.

Some days I wear bright shirts, sparkly bras, and dance my full body’s expression.

Some days I forget I ever heard that I wasn’t good enough.

And those some days don’t have to be so radically different from the everyday.

It just takes practice.

Who is up to join me in this game of being seen?

Loving you as you are and as you want to be seen – Jaime Abalone Woman


Acceptance Right Now

Can I accept where I am at right now?

Am I willing to say “I created this situation?”

How fully can I forgive myself?

My body is ill with gunk in my chest. It moved from a sore throat after a moving talking circle ceremony on Monday.

I admitted my guilt of not being mother enough. I had my son at 19, and have pretty much raised him alone even when I had a partner. And now that he is almost 16, I am thinking about how wonderful it will be to get my own life back. To be able to make choices of what I want to do, independent of what my family needs. It is selfish. It is a deep darkness in me that got pulled to the light with hot, painful tears.

And it is not a coincidence that I’m quietly laying in bed now.

There are many choices to be made.

And the universe is physically is putting me in a time out for contemplation.

But I am committed to taking one expressive baby step towards healing and forgiveness for myself.

What baby step are you willing to take today?

In love and forgiveness,

-Jaime Abalone Woman


It’s time to let go of all excuses.

It’s time to come be the woman you were meant to be.

It’s time to let your vulnerability be seen and held.

It’s time to make your mark.

Even if you fear.
Even if you doubt.
Even if you feel alone.

I’m here.

I recognize you as Sister Mirror.

Your story is my story.
Your pain is my pain.
Your joy is shared by all.

Thank you for beaming your light.
Thank you for accepting your dark.
Both are welcome and acknowledged.

We start this journey together – wherever you are at now.

You are never behind.
You are always at the perfect place for you right now.

I have a warm heart and hand to hold.

Tell me what you need.

I will listen. And praise you for sharing your desires.

Together we make magic.

I honor the Goddess in you at whatever form she takes.

Her expression is welcome here.

As is the voice of the little girl.
And the wise crone.

All is well, beautiful one.

I can hear you now.

What do you have to say?

-Jaime Abalone Woman